Anonymous asked: Mod, sorry if I'm going to say something stupid but I feel like I'm ace, and at the same time I sometimes think about sex (generally not involving myself) even though I don't feel any sexual urge towards anything... Do you think it's possible to be ace and then change and become "something" else? (sorry if you did not understand me, I can't really speak English well)
sure! I don’t see why not? anyway, it’s not my place to categorise you- if you find a label that gives you a sense of identity that’s wonderful, but don’t think that you have to ‘fit’ into a box; most of us are a mixture of several kinds of places on the gender/sexuality spectrum, just be patient and allow yourself time to understand your feelings, and be kind to yourself! don’t be angry that you aren’t sure what you are; self discovery is an ongoing journey, so let it go on!