I didn’t consider this, I’m very sorry (especially to you second anon, I feel like a real dingus and I hope your circumstances improve and I’m very sorry for ever making you feel that frustration), I just do? feel terrible. about it. so many of us do- however I can see that at this point I am causing more anguish and that is the exact opposite of what I intended- I didn’t really intend anything? I guess I wasn’t thinking about it from these angles and I’ll try to cut it out now I WILL cut it out now! do better mod! I will. I love you.
aw man, well- see, these are valid too! gosh. I don’t know what to say at this point- I still mean what I said in the original, I am sorry for not looking at things from another point of view and I am sorry for causing any sadness, at the same time I am still like, wildly angry at the situation and feel responsible as a representative of this country to voice that disappointment, though perhaps the fact it’s manifesting as self hatred is a bit unhelpful… I don’t know man. I think I just have to leave this at that- throwing my hands in the air in a confession that I just, don’t know! what to say. I hope things turn around somehow, but I just am too tired and stupid to be able to communicate all these big complicated feelings in an articulate enough manner (also wow it’s late and I should not be typing UH GOODNIGHT I may delete this post eventually- not because it doesn’t matter I just don’t have the brain or energy to deal w this right now)
ununnilium said:
You are good. Mod, you are so good. :> I think that’s the point to take away here - despite the system you’re rooted in you are SUCH a good person and putting SO MUCH into making the world better!!!
mel4ncholyhill said:
Like— I’m from the US, but when I’ll talk abt gay stuff or esp women’s issues there’s always some piece of work who’s like “wELL women elsewhere have it WORSE” like… yes? But someone else having walking pneumonia doesn’t cure my flu does it?
mel4ncholyhill said:
Not to butt in but like. It does seem like playing the pain game and on top of it— we don’t. Really have anything to substantiate what anon is saying as their truth anyways— and arguments like this are used to silence people talking abt super valid stuff all the time